Okay--enough pictures of random nightlights and swirly climbers at the park...time for a pic of a little angel baby boy. He LOVES, LOVES, LOVES his bath!! He just laid there in the tub tonight splashing like crazy and smiling like the happiest guy on earth.
Monday, March 31, 2008
Picture a day Challenge--day 81
Okay--enough pictures of random nightlights and swirly climbers at the park...time for a pic of a little angel baby boy. He LOVES, LOVES, LOVES his bath!! He just laid there in the tub tonight splashing like crazy and smiling like the happiest guy on earth.
A few blogging things I learned...
First, an article to read about whether we are being paranoid for going private...
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695263641,00.html
and another about blogging in general here.
Now, I had stated previously that people were using pics of Jenna peeling apples, among other pics, on the internet. Well, come to find out, it was GOOGLE who put those pictures stored away nicely for people to search for. I was SO upset because now they are burned onto the internet and I have to go through and figure out how to remove them each if I don't want people to search for them now--EVEN though I adjusted my settings to blog search engines. Anything posted before that point is permanently available. Period.
HOWEVER, I found some articles on how to remove--should you decide to stay public but take a safer approach. Click here for that.
To copyright your pics, you can simply write on the side that nobody is allowed to use them, etc. But there is also a website you can go to if you want to make it official looking. :) Click here.
You can also go here for some other options to protect the content on your blog or feed.
If you are looking to really protect your blog or go private all together, here are some really great tips: here
Hope this helps someone!! I would love to hear your feedback.
Why?
Why is it 1:46 p.m. and I have JUST gotten out of the shower and dressed for the day?
Why did Kaden decide to go for the red food coloring?? And WHY did he pour it all over the cookie bars I baked??
Why am I still debating in my mind if going private was right?? A friend of mine said she got the same comment--so maybe it wasn't personal...maybe it was just SPAM and I overreacted....no, going private is the right thing to keep us safe for now....but I love being public...but it is nice to see who really is reading your blog...AHHHHH!!!!
Why am I feeling totally guilty that I am sitting here with wet hair having just gotten dressed for the day and EATING BAJIO food ALONE that we have rationed so carefully and only eat TOGETHER...
Why have my kids watched way too much TV today??
Why is there half a box of rice crispies poured all over my kitchen floor?
Why won't google reader pick up private blog settings?
Why have I been up since 4:00 a.m.??
Why do I keep getting ridiculous phone calls from the credit collection place over a bill that has not only been cleared, but was not mine in the first place??
WHY am I sitting here writing this list of WHYS when I should be sweeping up the crispies, washing off the red food coloring, mopping up the spilled milk, cleaning out the fridge, and actually putting on makeup and doing my hair??
MAYBE BECAUSE IT'S MONDAY! :)
WHEW!
Never thought this day would come...or would HAVE to come...
And while I know the weirdo in Brazil probably wouldn't COME to my house or stalk me, it was still freaky getting the comment. And I CERTAINLY don't want to be on their blogroll.
So, hope nobody is upset about the switch! I am bummed...but think this is the best way to stay safe for now.
So, welcome to the new blog! YEAH!!
The crazies in Brazil
WHAT??
Yes...thanks to some crazy person in Brazil, I have really no choice but to go private. I had every intention to stay public--limit info--take myself off google searches, etc. I felt good about that.
I can deal with the spammer comments (the ones that say look here, etc.) And we LOVE, LOVE comments from friends, family, and even the newcomers that have found us through others. BUT I told Brandon the ONLY thing that would make us go private was if someone made a personal, WEIRD comment.
Well my friends, that comment has come. Some weirdo in Brazil with a commercial blog made a personal comment and said they were adding me to their blogroll because my blog is likeable and pleasing....it was a lot more weird than all that but that is the basic info...
YUCK...yikes....and goodbye!
THAT isn't worth staying public to me.
I have figured out a way to work around the max 100 readers...so please, if you want to follow me, leave your email address in the comments section and I will add you.
I really am open to new comments, new readers--even friends of a friend. I have been there (am still there!) and really do love to meet others...so don't feel weird about it. Just let me know how you found me and how I can see your blog, and don't forget your email address so I can add you!! We really do want to keep in touch with you, or meet you if you have been following along.
Leave a comment or email:
hollowayfam(at)yahoo(dot)com
What a bummer day...
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Picture a day Challenge--day 80
Saturday, March 29, 2008
The POTTY Party
Sigh...as much as I hate paying for and changing diapers, they are just plain CONVENIENT. But I certainly don't imagine that the kindergarten teacher would think that. :) So, sometime in the next WHILE, the trecherous training will begin.
HOWEVER, I think we might have a new member of FPA (future potty-trainers of America). Tonight Kaden ran in the bathroom while Brandon was doing his business. As soon as Brandon finished, Kaden took off his pants and climbed right up on the toilet! If only I had pictures of how HILARIOUS he looked getting on....SO funny. Anyway, he sat there for a minute and then Brandon took him off.
HE WAS MAD. He threw this HUGE tantrum, kicked and screamed, raced back to the toilet and proceeded to climb right back up. I grabbed the camera, laughing at this point. What a funny guy.
Then from the silent depths of the porcelain throne came the resounding sound of liquid hitting liquid. Yes, it is true. He had gone potty all by himself.
We were stunned!
He was SO happy--check out this face!
Picture a day Challenge--day 79
Day of Sunshine!
After the park, I dropped everyone off at home and went to meet up with some friends for lunch at Olive Garden. It was SOOOO yummy...and so much fun to have a child-free meal with good conversation! If you are looking for a pic, I am still debating posting it. I look bad....not just bad, but REALLY bad....am hoping I really don't look that way in real life. Yikes!
Friday, March 28, 2008
GAS TAG
Daddy-Daughter time
He came home empty handed...didn't remember to take the camera in! :)
So, we at least got a picture of Jenna's pirate patch from the happy meal box. Cheap thrills... :) Good times...
Picture a day Challenge--day 78
It felt SO nice. So relaxing. A little piece of heaven...
The Decision....(drumroll please)....
Why??
Several reasons--too many to name. One obvious reason to us was that we have more than 100 KNOWN readers (of which many don't ever COMMENT!!) and going private means you can only have up to 100--so how on earth do I pick and choose who gets to come and read and who doesn't??
Brandon and I talked for a long while about how to go about this situation. I looked up lots of different articles on how to protect your blog--and really it came down to the following:
We took our blog off the public blog listings, and took it off of the google search. And there is a tool you can add to your blog to copyright protect your pics. So, basically you can only find my blog through the blog of another friends blog, etc....or have the exact link. I am also going to take off my public profile info...And as far as other info, I am just going to be more conscious of posting advance events w/ times, etc. Just in case.
But really, what it also comes down to is just *feeling* that this is good and we are doing the right things. I think this is a good option for keeping up like we have been but keeping a sense of privacy and safety.
It's good to feel at peace...
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Picture a day Challenge--day 77
It was a blah picture day--and really the only thing I got a picture of was the new rake I bought and the leaves I started to rake up--FINALLY. When I went to buy one last fall, they were all out--GONE, completely empty. So, we have had leaves all over the place ALL winter. It was nice to get some clear weather to start getting out yard cleaned up and ready for some planting! :)
My blogaversary--
It's official--my blog is turning 1 year old today. Believe it or not, I have not always been a consistent blogger. In fact, I think my first few months of posts were all a few weeks apart. So, it is amazing to look back and see that in the past year I have used up almost half of my picture capacity and written 565 posts. WOW...
And it is amazing to see how much we have changed over this year. This blog has given me passion for finding things in life to take notice of--for photography, and for writing down my thoughts, feelings and observations. I have been able to reconnect with more people than I can count, met SO many wonderful new people, and been able to keep in touch with family and friends after moving away.
My first post was actually right after we found out we were having a boy and I was 20 weeks pregnant--Spencer was the first picture to grace our blog, even though he was still in my belly. You can check it out here if you are interested in taking a stroll down memory lane with me! :)
I would have to say that this has been a great blessing in my life...I have never seen such wonderful value in journal writing as I do now.
So, here's to my blog--my thoughts, my feelings, our ups and downs, our triumphs...our moments and milestones...
The story of Our Life...
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
WASTED TIME
And then I read the blogger help section...
Seems several people are having this same issue.
Geesh--had I known that I wouldn't have WASTED all that time! :)
Darn it...
Picture a day Challenge--day 76
The most BEAUTIFUL, wonderful, FABULOUS Spring DAY!
The great value of 3 kids and the lunch buffet
Today, after we went to a playgroup, I took the kids to Pizza Hut for a little lunch. They have a yummy buffet (now this isn't for the 100% healthy at heart!) with all sorts of pizza, pasta, breadsticks, salad bar, dessert...yum!
Now some of these restaurants have never seen Kaden eat--and if they had, they wouldn't have their pricing set the way they do. :) For the whole buffet--all you can eat, it's $5.49 for adults and kids under 3 are free. Well, it just so happens to be that Jenna is 3 for a few more weeks and Kaden and Spencer certainly fall under that category.
So--We went, we ate lots, we had loads of fun and got lots of looks...and we did it all for $5.91. I have a feeling we might have to hit up the local Pizza Hut a few more times before Jenna's birthday! :) jk...
Picture a day Challenge--day 75
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Cabin Fever
I have had such a hard time getting in the groove--you know, really figuring out a good schedule for us to be on and sticking to it. I function MUCH BETTER in my life if I get up early and get myself ready and going, start with a good breakfast all together, and go on with our day from there. But with my lack of sleep, getting up early is almost impossible. I end up staying in bed until I have no choice to get up because the kids are awake--usually between 7:00-7:30 a.m. Then I feel like our day is all thrown off--this morning Jenna was asking for breakfast at 10:30 a.m. WHAT?!?! :) WOW. I felt like a complete slacker.
I think I am going to turn in early...you never know how much sleep you might get in one night and really, I am not willing to gamble! :) Night...
Monday, March 24, 2008
bp, Walgreens, Taco Bell, and 4:00 a.m.
As I was laying my head on my cozy pillow to snuggle in and go to sleep, Spencer started crying. Ahhh....Brandon had a test this morning and I wanted him to get some sleep. So, I hauled myself out of bed and tried to get him back to sleep. At about 1:00 a.m., I realized it was just not going to happen. That is when Kaden woke up. I tried several times to get him back in bed and asleep, but he started screaming. Now, our house is small...and our house echos. NOT a good combo when your kids are little and learning to sleep. :) So, Kaden joined Spencer and I in the living room so I could try to keep them quiet.
Long story short, at about 2:45 a.m. I finally packed the boys up and went in search of a 24 hour grocery store since I needed to get some chicken and Brandon was going to take the car in the morning. I drove to every single one I could remember--and each of them was closed for Easter Sunday. Darn it--it was technically MONDAY and I was SO bummed they weren't open until later in the morning.
Kaden was showing no signs of being tired, so our little joy ride continued. We stopped by the bp to get gas and then headed to a TRUE 24 hour place--Walgreens. Now, this was probably a sight to see...we really looked AWESOME. Kaden had some tight-fitted airplane pj's on with some clunky tennis shoes, and I was wearing a blue Superman t-shirt with some black yoga pants and some brown dress shoes (because that is all I could find as we were trying to leave). No makeup...no hairdo. I looked ridiculous...So, in our crazy state of being, we cruised Walgreens. Up and down every single aisle...practically LOOKING for something to buy. We finally left empty handed. Spencer was out by the time...and Kaden was still alive and well, still no signs of sleep.
At this point, I was starting to get hungry. I had been up SO long that my body was ready for another meal--NO WONDER Taco Bell has their FOURTHMEAL. :) It just so happened to be the ONLY place we could find open with food. So, we grabbed a few tacos and headed home. Why didn't I just go home and heat up Easter leftovers? Great question...I've asked myself the same question all day. Totally illogical thinking...
I finally got Kaden back to bed and fell into my own cold bed at about 4:00 a.m. I have been SO tired all day--beat!
But before I hit the sack, does ANYONE know what the heck a FAMILY FRATERNITY is? Ya--it's real. I saw a sign for one on our late night drive--doesn't sound too fun if you ask me! :)
Good night--from a very tired, very very very tired mom....
Easter food...
Our friends, the Patty's, brought us a cute little plate of Easter treats. The kids loved them--they polished off the plate of goodies before the night was over. Thanks Patty family! SO good!
The great debate--
But several friends have started to go private for various reasons. Most of them safety issues. A friend of mine was looking up the dangers of blogging and I got looking into the sites. You can read the dangers here-- I can SEE where the articles are coming from. I understand that. But there is also a part of me that thinks that I will never fall victim to anything. We are running a harmless, family blog here...right? But at the same time, there is a little itty bitty corner in my mind that wonders if someone DOES watch and knows we are home much of our day...and knows what my kids look like, and what I look like...and what our car looks like...and then I tell myself that we don't live in that kind of a world.
I have held strong to my public blog views...but lately I find myself faltering, perhaps just because of the overwhelming trend to go private. Am I putting my family in danger? Or am I doing the right thing staying public? After tracking a few of my visitors from sitemeter, I found that somewhere along the line someone has taken a few of my pics and posted them for public access on other sites. Yes, it tells where the pics came from, but then it takes them to my blog. That bothers me. Why is someone taking a picture of Jenna peeling apples? And who wanted the picture of our girls night out at Shinto?
Perhaps this would not be such a big deal if I updated like some bloggers--every few weeks, with past info... :) But I really try to keep a good record...I try to record our day to day stuff that makes us who we are as a family...And THAT is what makes me worried. Someone having SO Much access too GOOD information, that would do BAD to my family.
I know some of you would suggest taking off our last name, changing all our first names, not writing about events as they happen, etc. But I just can't do that. This is who we are and this is a record of our life. And a year into the blogging game, it would be impossible to go through EVERYTHING I have written and remove all that info. So, the truly SAFE options would be to go private, or start over from scratch.
Both options are so depressing...
What to do...I am so lost in this decision.
Sunday, March 23, 2008
In need of FBT
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It's official...I seriously need some GIRL time...
some bonified, 100% genuine female bonding time (FBT)
Picture a day Challenge--day 73
Happy Easter--
We would have taken pics BEFORE church, but it's at 9:00 a.m. and we weren't quite on top of things this morning. So--this is what we got from our after-church-ready-for-naps kids! :) Some decent smiles--but really, hard to take great pics in dress clothes with piles of snow.
Here's our handsome little guy!
And then there is Jenna--no good single shot smiles. She just squinted her eyes and said it was too bright...hmmm...ready for a nap? I'd say YES!



